The following story is chapter 85 in the book entitled "Look How Things Work Out!"
A few months ago, I got a call at my office from someone claiming to be from the web hosting service I was using, saying that my domain name was about to expire and asking if I would like to renew . . . by giving them my credit card number.
I tell you what, I felt so SMART when I recognized this as a scam and told the guy I'd renew online! He called back a month later saying my domain name HAD expired. Once again, since I hadn't received the notification emails the caller said I should have gotten, I just KNEW this was an attempt to steal my identity! I am just so savvy!!
One step short of starting a new career with SCAMBUSTERS, I checked my website. Shockingly, I discovered that my domain name had expired. Then I checked my "junk" email folder. Yep. There they were.
Guess I'll stick with my current job.
The up-side of all this is that I got a chance to reconsider my domain name . . . (drumroll please) and was delighted to learn that Psyched-IN.com was available and is now all mine!!
This is a good time to officially and effusively thank the King of the (usually groan-inducing) pun, who came up with the title for my blog in about 5 seconds flat, and Juliette Kohrs for still being my friend AFTER designing my website.
LookAtMeee! I'm a DotCom!
Sunday, October 28, 2012
Anyway, that's what's been going on. So I've been thinking a lot about time management, and how to orchestrate this production without losing my job, my mind, or most importantly for the self-esteem and well-being of my children, MY TEMPER.
Case in point: I started this post a month ago. Sigh. A few strategies to mention here:
- Accept where you are: I am BUSY. I am a mother of 2, have a full-time (plus) job and a farm to run. There just flat aren't enough hours in a day to do everything I "need" to do. I have chosen my life. There are things I could do to simplify my life. I could move off my farm and live in an apartment, drive less, use less gas . . . but I think those are some big changes to make. I'm choosing to hang on a little more and see how things turn out before doing that. The PRICE TAG on that choice is that sometimes, I'm running around a lot and have to bring in my crack team of babysitters to help me be in 2 places at once.
- Recognize it won't last forever: While I am actually NOT convinced of this, what I know is that my amazing marvelous brain will habituate over time, and the same amount of insanity will SEEM like less. I'll keep you posted on how that turns out.
- Do what you can: I have an awful habit of wanting to do things thoroughly, and the right way, and completely. HA HA HA says the universe!!! What ends up happening is that I spend a lot of time ruminating about how I don't have time to do _(it)__ right and I obsess about how it's going to feel to not get ______ done. Funny thing though, if I spend that time actually DOING something? Who would imagine that I make more progress than I think!!! This is especially true with exercise. My fabulous exercise inspirer Heather Ann and I came up with the brilliant idea that I could set my sights on a ridiculously small number of pushups, situps and squats. I have a reminder on my phone every morning. It says "you can do this." Sometimes, I actually manage to do it. What I know is that if I try to get all enthused about working out for an hour, I won't even get out of bed.
- Be kind to yourself: don't waste energy beating yourself up for what doesn't get done. Pick the important stuff, give it your best shot. The hardest part is getting over the power of momentum. My favorite phrase is "it doesn't matter WHERE you start, it matters THAT you start." Then I consciously DO something. There's something that happens in our brains that equates obsessing about something with doing something about it. Use that energy to think about how great it will feel to have done that 5 minutes of whatever it is you decided to do.